A few things I fear because of autism; that really have nothing to do with autism. 1. I worry that my daughter will remember me as always stressed, crying or tired. When we have a hard day, I know I’m quick to snap at her. I pray that I can remember that the years are ...
Walk with me a minute as I momentarily drift off the Autism topic. I won’t insult her by claiming to know the first thing about being a Freshman girl. But, I remember vividly being a Freshman boy, and it was an incredibly stressful time. All I wanted to be was a brick in the wall, ...
—by Mrs. BaconAll of my life I’ve been a “planner.” I still have the 3 ring binder that I used to plan our wedding and can tell you exactly how much we paid for our honeymoon and videographer by glancing at the FINANCE tab. I would mail out cards for every special occasion so that ...
He gets a little excited. We pulled into the parking lot of Walmart for our semi-weekly excursion to buy a new Cars toy for being a good boy at school. I barely put the car in Park before he threw open the rear door. Finesse is not one of his strong suits. The car door ...
The kid is huge. He is a gifted athlete. He is the star of his traveling baseball team and, at 13 years-old, already famous in our small town for his ability to hit a baseball a country mile. He is popular, good looking and carries himself with the cockiness that can be expected from someone ...
It’s not like the movies. There isn’t a climactic “Ah-ha” moment where everybody cheers. The scene doesn’t fade to black and reappear with the credits rolling over an upbeat soundtrack and a compilation of all the main characters singing and dancing. Healing is slow. Sometimes you know the right answer in your soul, but your ...
-Discipline your child– you’re a bully. -Let him cry– you’re disconnected and insensitive. -Comfort him– you’re spoiling him. -Negotiate with him– you’re giving in. -Stay home– you’re not trying. -Bring them out– you’re disrupting others’ good time. -Ask for concessions– you’re milking the disability for special treatment. -Ask for help– you’re weak. -Do it yourself– ...
12 years on this ride. Here’s what I’ve learned so far: 1) You’re never as good as your best day or as bad as your worst. 2) Our biggest victories often follow short bursts of brutal tests of will. 3) Comparison is a vile, ugly monster. 4) He is sneaky like a ninja and never ...
You want answers?You want answers?You can’t handle the truth! Son, we live in a world that has ignorance and that ignorance has to defeated by people with guts. Who’s gonna do it? You? You, Autism Speaks? We have a greater responsibility than you could possibly fathom. You weep for privacy and you wonder why we ...
Ball one (high and outside). “Hey Dad, can I have some peanuts?” “Sure, kiddo. The next time the guy comes by, flag him down.” Strike one (one and one). “There he is. Hey Mister! Over here!” The vendor winks at Luke, snatches a bag of nuts out of his tray and tosses it over eight ...
